Sadly there is no such thing as the private affair nowadays especially when we are living in transparent era of twitter and facebooking , sometimes with such undecent exposures . You know what i mean .....when someones tag you a photo of you , and especially when you are in a ' different' situation!
Hmmm not exactly a proud moment, at times .hahaha
My husband started his facebook affair in private . It was supposed to between him , and his niece in germany . He wanted to how she 's getting on there thru her pictures , what evolved thereafter was a network of friends. Anyone who knows him, will vouch that he is a a sociable, friendly person but down deep , he really is a private person. I know now. Or it could be age. Anyway , in just a few months of having his facebook account , he closed it !
One thing, he is not curious enough to know what's going on in someone else's life, who you are dating seeing or eating , the quizzes and the games does not hold much fascination for him, nor he finds FB an effective avenue for his emotional release , ( as someone puts it ) .
He once said , Focus does not necessarily means concentraton on a matter , but also eliminating all other possible distractions ! So FaceBook can be a distraction for some people.
Admittedly , affair with facebook can almost be like an addiction to alcohol or something , the degree of addiction This week, I am in Japan and idle! ( of course after office hour that is ) and I have started to go in Fb more often and i can feel the 'connection' with Fb. I know what people eat on Monday , Tuesday and wed , Thur and fri , ( not bad idea , can try out some new eating places , ) What quizzes they took ,( can find out more about myself too if i take the same quizzes!) how happy they are from their daily horroscope thingy, ( i get to look out on my horroscope too for FREE) It may not be something evil or destructive but hey wait a minute .
My take , do it in moderation.....it can be healthy doses !
In nature every action has consequences , a phenomenom called the butterfly effect.
What effect does FB have on you ?
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